TY - BOOK AU - Staff,Rachel AU - Thornbery,Hugh TI - Parenting adopted teenagers: advice for the adolescent years SN - 1784500690 AV - HV875 .S676 2015 U1 - 649/.145 23 PY - 2016/// CY - London PB - Jessica Kingsley Publishers KW - Adopted children KW - Parent and teenager KW - Adolescence KW - FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS KW - General KW - bisacsh KW - fast KW - Electronic books N1 - Includes bibliographical references and index; Parenting Adopted Teenagers -- Advice for the Adolescent Years by Rachel Staff; Foreword; Acknowledgements; Disclaimer/Note on the Text; Introduction; Adoption today -- who are the adopted teenagers we are discussing?; Representing the parents' and adolescents' views; Themes discussed; Understanding the relationship between the past and the present when providing support; The teenage brain; The influence of trauma, loss and attachment; Chapter One -- Key Emotional Themes for Adopted Teenagers; The impact of emotions in the brain of adopted teenagers; Influences on the brain's emotions during adolescenceLoss and the particular considerations for the adopted teenager's brain; Conflict and anger: what are the particular considerations for adopted teenagers?; Shame and the particular considerations for adopted teenagers [AQ]; Low mood, anxiety and isolation: why is the teenage brain particularly vulnerable?; Conclusion; Chapter Two -- Behaviours and 'Ways of Being'; Being selfish and lacking in empathy; Boredom and risk taking; Lying, stealing and sabotage: behaviours linked to trauma in young people; A note about sleep and underlying emotional statesConclusion; Chapter Three -- Approaches and Strategies for Managing the Emotional Rollercoaster; A useful starting point; The value of maintaining the parent-child relationship; Paying attention to the 'parenting brain'; What if parents get it wrong?; The use of PACE in promoting a positive relationship; Responding to key emotional states: loss, anger, shame and low mood/anxiety ; The value of play in adolescence; Some notes on other behaviours; Boundaries and consequences for behaviour; Rewarding positive behaviour ; Managing risk; Conclusion; Chapter Four -- Mental Health Provision for Adopted Adolescents Mad, bad or sad: how services for mental health have developed; Conclusion; Chapter Five -- Changing Relationships: The Challenge of Managing and Sustaining Relationships with the Adopted Adolescent; The adolescent need to separate and the challenges for parents; Attachment and adopted adolescents; Additional challenges resulting from the 'wobbly base'; Conclusion; Chapter Six -- Emerging Identity; The importance of identity development in adolescence; Why this process may be more complex for adopted teenagers; Confusion around the impact of birth history/genetic identity and identity formationSupporting the young person; Identity and the risk of divided loyalty; Conclusion ; Chapter Seven -- Peer Relationships and Early Intimate Relationships; The importance and potential benefits of peer relationships in adolescence; Potential challenges in peer-group relationships for adopted teenagers; Other features of adopted teenagers' peer relationships; The value of connecting with other adopted teenagers; A note on the additional challenges of social media UR - https://libproxy.firstcity.edu.my:8443/login?url=http://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&scope=site&db=nlebk&AN=1089602 ER -